52 Ancestors: Week 9: Conflicting Clues - The Sauer Women

I love this image. It holds considerable personal and genealogical significance, as it is said to depict three generations on my paternal grandmother’s maternal line. However, despite its sentimental value, upon closer scrutiny its labeling raises significant questions of identification. I especially question who the identity of the eldest woman on the far right.

My grandmother Clare labeled the back of this photo for me.

The three children standing in the front row are left to right: 

• William J. Sauer (February 5, 1901 - March 16, 1926)
• Joseph Sauer (May 6, 1902 - December 18, 1968)
• Anna Marie Sauer-Henry, my great grandmother, (July 19, 1899 - May 8, 1986)

The woman in the center of the photo is my great-great grandmother Agnes Frances Gray-Sauer.

The back row from left to right are as follows:

• Raymond Fitzpatrick (June 10, 1906 - October 15, 1977)
• Margaret M. Gray-Fitzpatrick (January 25, 1875 - June 20, 1968)
• Mary "Mamie" Gray (July 22, 1869 - May 24, 1929)
• Agnes Frances Gray-Sauer (October 27, 1871 - December 30, 1941)
• Elizabeth Gray (July 9, 1875 - June 9, 1970)
• Anna Hughes-Gray (November 1843 - April 17, 1904)
• Baby (unidentified)

I question the identification of the eldest woman on the far right because I know for certain that Anna Hughes-Gray died on April 17, 1904 and Raymond Fitzpatrick, the child being held on the far left was not born until June 10, 1906. If both dates are accurate, they could not have appeared in the same image. I am confident in the accuracy of these two dates, which suggests that the woman identified as Anna Hughes-Gray may be another relative.

One possibility is Catherine Hughes, a sister of Anna Hughes-Gray. However, I don't have much information about her beyond her existence. I don't know if she married, when she died, or where she lived. Perhaps further research into Catherine’s life may clarify if she could possibly be the eldest woman in the picture.

Additionally, I have problems with the dates I have recorded for the sisters Margaret Gray-Fitzpatrick (January 25, 1875) and Elizabeth Gray (July 9, 1875). A six-month interval between the birth of sisters is biologically impossible, meaning at least one of these birth dates is likely incorrect. 

Finally, I believe the unidentified infant may be Cecilia Sauer (July 14, 1906 – August 7, 1907), my great-grandmother’s younger sister who died at a year old. Given Cecilia’s short lifespan, her presence in the photograph would help establish a probable date range for when the image was taken and may help me resolving some of the questions of identification.

If Anna Hughes-Gray wasn't alive to see baby Cecilia, was there another Hughes, or Gray, or Sauer woman of that generation who was?

Nonetheless, I think the photograph is a valuable intergenerational artifact. My grandmother Clare certainly knew many of the individuals in the photo during her lifetime, but toward the end of her life her memory had begun to fade. She passed from Alzheimer's Disease in 2023. So I need to take a closer look now at the records I can find to sort out these inconsistencies and figure out who everyone really is in the photo.

Week 8: The Little Ones with Aunt Agnes

I’ve decided to stick with the theme of favorite photos for a while. This is another image I discovered tucked into one of my grandmother’s scrapbooks, those quiet time capsules that somehow hold a whole world of unspoken love stories. 

This coming Friday, February 27 would have been my Grandma Clare's 97th birthday. She passed in 2023. My grandma Clare is the little girl on the left with the chunky bangs. I’d recognize that face anywhere. I had the very same haircut for half of my life, which makes this photo feel even more personal, like a tiny echo of the past across generations. I’m guessing my grandmother was about three years old when this photo was taken.

On the back of the photo, someone wrote “Aunt Agnes & Claire.” I know for certain my grandmother didn’t label it herself because whoever did misspelled her name. It’s Clare, with no “i.” Which is ironic, considering she was named after St. Clare, the patron saint of eyes. Yet no “i”s in Clare. Go figure.

I’m not entirely sure who the baby or the young boy are. If I had to guess, the baby might be my grandmother’s younger brother, Richard Joseph Henry (March 19, 1932 – July 26, 1998). Nanny had just turned three when Richie was born. If that’s the case, then the little boy could be her older brother, Robert Victor Henry (October 21, 1925 – April 30, 2011). Maybe. Although I’m less confident about because the boy doesn’t quite look six years old to me, which is how old Bobby would have been in 1932.

As for Aunt Agnes, she was my grandmother’s maternal aunt, Agnes Sauer (April 23, 1910 – October 4, 1973). She was 21 when Richie was born, turning 22 that year. She passed away shortly before I was born, at the age of 63. She never married and had no children of her own, but she was a deeply loved aunt. My grandmother mentioned her from time to time, always fondly, and carries her name as her middle name, Clare Agnes Henry-Earle.

Of course, I’m making the huge assumption that the baby and the little boy are relatives. We tend to do that when looking at old family photos, don't we? As if neighbors, friends, or acquaintances couldn’t possibly have attended the same event. Still, I’m working through my family tree now, especially on my grandmother’s maternal side, to see if she had cousins close in age to her, since the little boy appears only slightly older than Nanny; maybe 4 or 5 years-old.

If anyone in the family recognizes these faces, remembers a story, or has seen this photo before in another album, I would love to hear from you. Even the smallest detail, a name, a hunch, a half-remembered anecdote, could help me place these children in our family story. If you recognize the faces or know more about Aunt Agnes, I’d be so grateful to learn from you.

Week 7: The Losees, The Henrys, & The Earles, Oh My.

After a recent post, my cousin Tom asked how my great grandmother Ethel Mae Losee-Earle (February 14, 1896 - May 27, 1960) was connected to his grandpa. I frequently reference this photo when explain the connection between the Losee and the Earle families and the event that spurred my love of genealogy.

This is a photo from my grandma's brother Richie's wedding on April 12, 1953. It actually sits in my office. It shows Richie and his wife Jeannette surrounded by all of Richie's five siblings, their spouses, and his mother Anna Marie Sauer-Henry.

From Left to Right (seated): Regina Dorothy "Jean" Henry-Drew, Anna Marie "Anne" Henry-Cramer, Anna Marie Sauer-Henry, Clare Agnes Henry-Earle, Josephine Dolores Doerflinger-Henry. Standing: James Aloysius "Jimmy" Drew, William Charles "Bill" Cramer, Robert Victor "Bobby" Henry, Richard Joseph "Richie" Henry, Jeannette Alice Losee-Henry, Edwin Maynard "Ed" Earle, Charles Aloysius "Charlie" Henry, Jr. 

Uncle Bobby was not yet married to my beautiful great aunt Margaret at this point. Although 6 years older than Richie, Bobby didn't marry until 3 years later in 1956.

How I Got Started in Genealogy Research 

When I was very young, my paternal grandparents, Clare Agnes Henry-Earle and Edwin Maynard Earle, took me to a family reunion for my grandpa Earle’s mother’s side, the Losees. The Losee family has deep roots on Long Island going back to the 1630s. While at the reunion my grandmother’s baby brother, Richie, showed up with his family. I was puzzled. He wasn’t a Losee. He was a Henry. 

My grandmother explained that her brother married my grandfather’s cousin, Jeannette Losee. That only raised more questions. Who had introduced who? I assumed someone had to have made introductions of either my grandparents to each other or Richie to Jeannette. My grandmother laughed and said that, actually, it wasn’t until Richard and Jeannette’s engagement party that my grandpa realized Jeannette was his cousin. “What?” He asked Jeannette her last name. When she answered “Losee,” he was stunned. That was his mother’s maiden name. 

I was stunned. Richard had unknowingly married his brother-in-law’s second cousin. But at the time of the reunion, no one could explain exactly how the two were connected. So I ended up having to draw a family tree just to visualize it. And I have not stopped since.

Left to Right (seated): Anna Marie Sauer-Henry, Clare Agnes Henry-Earle. (Standing): Richard Joseph "Richie" Henry, Jeannette Alice Losee-Henry, Edwin Maynard Earle. 

Above, Anna is the mother of Clare and Richie. Richie's wife Jeannette is second cousins to Ed. Second cousins means that they have the same great grandparents, that their parents (Standford Losee and Ethel Losee-Earle) were first cousins. Stan's father, Oliver Losee was the older brother of Ethel's father John Losee Jr.

I am hoping the little diagram below can help my cousins to see how the Losees connect to the Henrys and the Earles. I have made my best effort to anonymize the living.

Now to make matters more complex John Losee Jr. and Oliver Losee married two Smith sisters, Flora Smith-Losee and Melinda Smith-Losee, respectively. But I won't add to the chaos today.